And the excessive protection deprive him of the opportunity to be independent. The higher the level fenced off and the elevation of the mother, the lower the level of confidence in his teenage and higher expression of total dependence on public opinion, and a heightened sense of guilt. On the other hand, the higher the level of positive interest to teen parents, the higher his willingness to help others, the more developed his sense of responsibility. The stronger the mother exhibits related to the teenager as a small child, the more he defends his own independence, adulthood through intolerance to criticism, to reassess its own capabilities, the expression of feelings of superiority over others, excessive stubbornness, unfriendliness, lack of restraint and quick temper. Although the emotional instability is also influenced by such factors associated with rapid physical development at this age – the difficulty in functioning heart, lungs, brain blood supply.
Therefore, for teens typical changes in blood pressure, fatigue, mood swings and hormonal storm consequence of which is imbalance. The ratio of adolescent to himself as an adult is called 'a sense of maturity. " This desire is that all treated him not as a small, but as an adult. Sense of adulthood and is manifested in the pursuit of independence and desire to protect some aspects of his life from interfering with the parents. The teenager, believing himself a unique personality, while at the same time tends outwardly no different from their peers. A typical feature of adolescents is conformal – imitation. Desire to join the group, does not stand out, meet security needs.
Sometimes teens simulate the behavior of a significant person, usually the father. In case of insufficient criticality teenager, his lack of independence in the judgments of role model could be adversely affected. If parents filed a bad example for alcohol, then a teenager becomes a norm of conduct frequent consumption of alcoholic beverages. Moreover, this example of parents makes the treatment of alcoholism is a complex process because it is deeply imprinted in the minds of such behavior as the norm. In the most important thing children do inherit the values of parents. 'Spheres of Influence' parents and peers delineated. Usually transmitted from parents to fundamental aspects of social life. With peers the same advice about 'immediate' issues. However, relationships with peers for adolescents are more significant than in adults because it is the social isolation of young people from his family genealogy. Adolescence is a period of stormy inner feelings and emotional difficulties. Adolescents sometimes become shy and attach great importance to shortcomings of their appearance and behavior, which leads to a reluctance to meet with some people. Sometimes anxiety paralyzes the social life of a teenager so that he refuses to most forms of group activity. According to a survey conducted among teenagers, each 12-th in the head came the idea suicide. Behavioral characteristic of almost all adolescents. Characteristics of this age – the sensitivity, mood swings, fear of ridicule, reduced self-esteem. Most children over time, it runs by itself, some also need help of a psychologist. There are personal growth trainings, which will help the adolescent develop a healthy self-esteem and its relationship with the outside world. Of course, it is very important remains the preservation of contact between adolescents and parents, which is achieved by striving for mutual understanding and respect for the feelings and views of each other.